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the fire pit

The mindset, energetics, & inner work of becoming a breadwinning woman. 

I AM READY

you want to speak on stages, be well known, & have a net worth 

Which will require you to expand your capacity, to face every single shadow, pattern, & piece of your identity to be able to lead at this level. 

But does the way you're living, leading + making decisions right now actually match the woman who has it? Because you can build the strategy.

You can find your Rome.
You can create offer after offer, hire a team, join bundles, summits, & collaborations. 
You can make more fucking money.

But if every time it's time to be SEEN you think about what your family is saying.. 
Every time someone doesn't like what you say, you question yourself...
Every time money gets slow, you panic + start rebuilding...
Every time you make more money, you find a new way to spend it...
Every time life gets hard, the entire business falls apart..

We're not dealing with a business problem anymore.
We're dealing with the woman running it
And these are the parts that will cap your money, shrink your leadership, sabotage your visibility + keep the legacy you say you want just out of reach.

It's time to become the woman who can hold what you're asking for.
THAT'S THE FIRE PIT.

The stages. The book. The business. The movement. The freedom. The legacy.

You keep telling me you want the money. 

join the fire

I am so ready!

& you keep hitting it. circling it. naming it. journaling about it. talking about it on your podcast.
but it is not moving.
because knowing your block & having the energetic capacity to shift through it are two completely different things.
that is exactly what we do in here.

YOU ARE CURRENTLY BEING SHOWN EVERY SINGLE PATTERN, WOUND, & BLOCK STANDING BETWEEN YOU & THE SCALED VISIBLE LEADING VERSION OF YOUR BUSINESS 

MAYBE THIS IS WHAT IT ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE RIGHT NOW...

You say you want to speak on stages... but you're still scared to say what you actually believe on Instagram because somebody might disagree
You say you want to speak on stages...but going viral makes you want to crawl in a hole & hide 
You say you want to speak on stages...But you are scared of being fully preceieved or even better, misunderstood. 
You want to write the book...
but you've spent three years saying you're going to write the fucking book.
You want to write the book...but you've spent three years talking about 30 different modalities, scared to fully embody your story, & be known for ONE THING
You say you want a networth of millions... yet.. but every time the business grows, you create more work for yourself instead of letting someone help you.
You want wealth...but money still makes you feel unsafe as fuck.
You want to known as a leader... but you're still making decisions based on whether everyone else will approve of them.
You want freedom...but you keep saying yes when you mean no.
You want people to respect your boundaries... but you keep moving your own boundaries because someone is disappointed.
You want to charge more... but are charing less for NOW and will "eventually" raise them... 

CYCLE BREAKING DOESN'T END WHEN YOU START MAKING MONEY.

Sometimes you just start doing the same shit in prettier clothes. 😂 with a fancy ass website & brand shoot.. 
Overworking becomes “ambition.”
People pleasing becomes “client experience.”
Hyper independence becomes “Boss mommy"
Never resting becomes “CEO life.”
Proving yourself becomes “building a legacy.”
Being afraid to disappoint people becomes “being accessible.”
Trying to control everything becomes “high standards.”
And suddenly you built the business you wanted SO BAD...
and you fucking hate it.. 
The Fire Pit is where we catch & burn that shit.

GET STARTED NOW

Here you finallyyyy FULLY EMBODY all that you are. Your story, your lived experience, your culture, YOUR WEIRD SHIT, Your expertise.
Your gifts. Your modalities. Your ideas. Your voice. Your convictions.
Your medicine. Your hard earned wisdom. And a whole lot of shit you've survived.

We're not stripping any of that away.

We're asking:
WHO DO YOU HAVE TO BECOME TO ACTUALLY HOLD WHAT YOU KEEP ASKING FOR? Not perform her. Not pretend to be her.

FULLY UNLEASH HER
YOUR BREADWINNER ENERGY®

Fuck that.

WE Don't MAKE YOU LESS OF WHO YOU ARE.

THE RESULT?

YOU BECOME THE BREADWINNER OF YOUR OWN LIFE.

Not because you make more money than your husband.
Not because you hit six figures.
Not because you own a business.
BECAUSE YOU HAVE CHOICES.
You are not a victim of your own life 
You have freedom from your own patterns, cycles, & can clearly see what needs to be rewired for your next level of leadership

You are a WOC + cycle breaker building something bigger than what was modeled for you.

You have a coaching, healing, creative, education or service-based business or you're building one.

You want the money and the meaning.

You want to speak on stages, write the book, build the movement + become known for the work you carry.

You want your children to inherit something different.

You are tired of knowing exactly what your pattern is and then watching yourself do the same fucking thing anyway. 😂

You want women around you who understand that building a legacy isn't just about revenue.
It's about changing what's possible after you.

THIS ROOM IS FOR THE WOMAN WHO IS FIRST.

You are not willing to look at the identity and shadow patterns keeping you stuck, just the strategy.

This is NOT for you if

You don't want to be 1000% responsible for your own reality & results 

You think energy work is a luxury, an afterthought, & not what will change your entire life & business 

You are more in love with your excuses than the life you say you want 

If you do not believe in electromagnetic field work, energy work, or that you can shift your frequency at any moment to change your life 

We talk about money, power, visibility, identity, relationships, boundaries, motherhood, leadership, self-trust, receiving, rest, fear, grief, anger, comparison, jealousy, success, failure, being misunderstood, outgrowing people, wanting more, having more + learning how to fucking hold more.

The shit that's actually happening while you're trying to build the fucking empire. Not a “CEO morning routine,” pretending you can journal your way out of everything, or talking about abundance and flow and manifest it bs 😂 Real life. shadows. Real conversations. Real women building big fucking lives.

INSIDE THE FIRE PIT, WE TALK ABOUT THE SHIT UNDERNEATH THE BUSINESS.

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WHEN YOU JOIN THE FIRE PIT YOU GET:
🔥 The full Lineage Codes course portal
🔥 Ashes to Empire 5-part series
🔥 Rebirth 30 Day Challenge
🔥 Paid to Be a Cycle Breaker
🔥 UNLEASHED: 4.5 hours of live coaching & strategy
🔥 All Paths Lead to Results mini course + workbook
🔥 Rich B Energetics
🔥 Embodiment Based Sales
🔥 Become an Energetic Match
🔥 BWE® Podcast binge portal
+
🔥 Live calls with Tay
🔥 Live challenges
🔥 Guest expert calls
🔥 Exclusive content drops
🔥 Full call replay vault

50+ hours of training waiting for you on day one.

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You create YOUR version. You keep 100% revenue

When your family doesn't understand.
When your partner feels threatened.
When your friends change.
When you outgrow an identity.
When you make more money than you ever have.
When you lose it.
When you have to rebuild.
When you become more visible.
When people talk about you.
When you stop explaining yourself.
When the thing you've been manifesting finally shows up and suddenly you're terrified of fucking losing it.
THAT'S THE FIRE PIT.

you refuse to sit in another room with women who haven't decided they want big sh*t

You already fucking do.
You need somewhere to talk about what happens when you actually go after it.

If I waited until my life stabilized or felt better to build my business, or paused every time my life fell apart, I wouldn't be where I am today. I wouldn't have built 2 multi 6-figure businesses + a 7-figure brand. Life doesn't stop fucking life-ing because you have a business to build. You have to learn how to hold both.

I started my first business at 23 years old, $100 to my name, no degree, wrecked credit, & 7 months pregnant. In 2020 I launched my second business & through the last 10 years I've been through abuse, divorce, grief, remarried, 2 babies, single motherhood, and even becoming a widow.. and my business has only grown. That is what happens when you BECOME a Breadwinner. 

widow, mother of 2, full time biz owner of 10 years 

Business builder, mentor, & shadow alchemist

Tay nocktonick
Founder of Breadwinner Energy® 

xx tay

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